If you've ever said to yourself, “Monday, January, after the holiday, once work calms down, when the kids are back at school, when things settle down…” — if you've ever said any of those statements, this podcast is for you.
Now of course, the context I’m going to speak in is transformation, but you’ll soon realise this applies to pretty much everything — anything you want to start in your life.
If there’s something you’ve got that nagging feeling about — like, “I’d love to do that,” or “I really want to do it,” or even “I really need to do it” — whichever one it is, this episode is going to help you.
We’re going to take that big thing in your mind and deconstruct it into actionable, bite-size steps you can take right now so you can actually get started.
Why We Keep Waiting
We’ve all said some version of this, right? And the logic feels sound.
- Start when conditions are great
- Set yourself up properly
- Prepare your mind
- Don’t half-heartedly begin something you can’t sustain
But here’s the reality:
Work never truly calms down.
Life doesn’t just “settle.”
The right time isn’t coming.
The “Perfect Conditions” Trap
Now, of course, there are exceptions.
So if you’ve ever said:
Why This Happens (Psychology)
So why does this happen?
Starting something means:
- Risking failure
- Feeling discomfort
- Facing judgment
The idea of “the right time” is really just a socially acceptable way of saying:
The Truth About Readiness
Here’s the key point:
It comes from starting.
You can’t build confidence by thinking about something.
What Actually Works (4 Steps)
So let’s break this down into four practical steps.
1️⃣ Shrink the Start
The first step is to shrink the start until it’s impossible to say no to.
- Perfect diet
- Full training schedule
- Complete lifestyle overhaul
- 60 pounds to lose
Instead, shrink it down:
- One session this week — not five
- Two protein meals a day — not perfect eating
- A 30-minute walk — not 10,000 steps
You don’t wait to feel ready and then start.
2️⃣ Separate Decision From Conditions
Second: separate the decision from the conditions.
A plan that works at 70% is far better than a perfect plan that never starts.
- Busy week? Do 3 sessions instead of 5
- Traveling? Focus on protein + hotel gym
- Stressful period? Maintain instead of pushing
3️⃣ Use the 2-Week Rule
Third: use a 2-week rule.
For example:
- Hit your protein target
- Do 3 sessions per week
- Go for daily walks
- Evidence
- Clarity
- Momentum
Two weeks feels manageable.
4️⃣ Don’t Reset After Disruptions
Fourth: stop treating disruptions as a reset to zero.
You go off plan → “I’ll restart next month.”
But progress isn’t linear.
The people who succeed aren’t the ones who avoid disruption.
Final Message
If you’ve been waiting for the right time — and deep down you know you’re avoiding it — these four steps will help you move forward.
And by the way, if you’re enjoying these shorter episodes and want me to cover specific topics, just email me at podcast@rntfitness.com and let me know.
Hope you enjoyed this one — and I’ll see you on the next episode.
Next steps:
- Book a 1-1 strategy session with my team to find out more: https://www.rntfitness.com/applynow
- Find out if you’re ready for a transformation at https://www.rntfitness.com/transform